Love is about me.
This is a conversation I have had from varying angles with different people. Unhealthy love and healthy love. Psychologists will call it different things too, like co-dependency, or obsession.
I can only comment on me and my opinion based on my experiences, and in some cases my observations. I am often confused by other people and the way they demonstrate what they call love, so keep that in mind when I share my opinion on it.
I have said for years and will say again (although I’m sure I am not the first) – that Love is a VERB. I don’t believe that we just decide we love people and then it just ‘is’ without some effort. If someone set’s your mind on fire and loving them is like a fix of a drug that you can feel trickling through your insides and lighting up parts of your brain that…
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